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Why your couples portraits don't need to be awkward....

  • Writer: rebeccabedson
    rebeccabedson
  • Aug 2, 2025
  • 2 min read

Updated: Jan 27

"We're So Awkward in Front of the Camera: Please, No Cringy Poses"


Sound familiar? Good news — I hear this all the time. Even better news? That’s exactly why I shoot the way I do. I’m not here to force you into weird prom-style stances or tell you to “look lovingly into each other’s eyes” (unless you’re really into that, in which case — no judgment).



Real Moments, Not Stiff Poses


I photograph couples in a documentary style, which basically means:


  • No stiff instructions

  • No fake laughing on cue

  • Just you two, being yourselves


Whether that’s a quiet hug or a full-on laugh from an inside joke, that’s what I’m after — real connection over perfect composition.


“But We’re Not Photogenic…”


That’s my favourite kind of couple. I’m not looking for models — I’m looking for you. Trust me, awkwardness disappears fast when you're not being told to “act natural” (which, let’s be honest, is the most unnatural phrase in existence).


What I do instead is:


  • Keep things relaxed

  • Talk absolute nonsense (you’ve been warned)

  • Prompt gently if needed (“walk like you're pretending not to be tipsy” works wonders)


A Little About My Style


You’ll hear photographers talk about “storytelling,” but here’s what that actually means in my world:


  • Your portraits will feel like a chapter from your day — not an interruption

  • You won’t be standing in a field pretending to laugh (unless that’s your thing)

  • I focus on capturing your real chemistry — whether that’s silly, sweet, or a bit sarcastic



No Pressure, No Pretending


Some couples want zero posing. Others like a little direction. I adapt to you.


What I won’t do:


  • Force you into awkward positions

  • Ask you to kiss in front of 100 guests if you're not into PDA

  • Say the words “Now do a sexy one” (why is this a thing??)


The Importance of Comfort in Photography


Feeling comfortable in front of the camera is crucial. When you are at ease, it shows in your photos. I aim to create a relaxed atmosphere. This way, you can focus on each other instead of worrying about how you look.


Capturing Authenticity


Authenticity is key in photography. I believe that the best moments are often unplanned. Those candid shots reveal true emotions. They tell your story in a way that posed photos simply cannot.


TL;DR: You Be You — I’ll Handle the Camera


Couples portraits don't have to feel like a school photo session. They can feel like hanging out. Like a breather on a busy day. Like you two just having a moment while I quietly (and possibly awkwardly) crouch in a bush nearby with my camera.


Ready for Unawkward, Honest Portraits?


Let’s make some magic — without any of the weird posing. To check availability or ask questions, contact rebeccabrennanphotography@gmail.com. If you're not ready to commit just yet, come stalk me on Instagram @rebecca_brennan_photography.



 
 
 

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