Why your couples portraits don't need to be awkward....
- rebeccabedson
- Aug 2, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: Jan 27
"We're So Awkward in Front of the Camera: Please, No Cringy Poses"
Sound familiar? Good news — I hear this all the time. Even better news? That’s exactly why I shoot the way I do. I’m not here to force you into weird prom-style stances or tell you to “look lovingly into each other’s eyes” (unless you’re really into that, in which case — no judgment).

Real Moments, Not Stiff Poses
I photograph couples in a documentary style, which basically means:
No stiff instructions
No fake laughing on cue
Just you two, being yourselves
Whether that’s a quiet hug or a full-on laugh from an inside joke, that’s what I’m after — real connection over perfect composition.
“But We’re Not Photogenic…”
That’s my favourite kind of couple. I’m not looking for models — I’m looking for you. Trust me, awkwardness disappears fast when you're not being told to “act natural” (which, let’s be honest, is the most unnatural phrase in existence).
What I do instead is:
Keep things relaxed
Talk absolute nonsense (you’ve been warned)
Prompt gently if needed (“walk like you're pretending not to be tipsy” works wonders)
A Little About My Style
You’ll hear photographers talk about “storytelling,” but here’s what that actually means in my world:
Your portraits will feel like a chapter from your day — not an interruption
You won’t be standing in a field pretending to laugh (unless that’s your thing)
I focus on capturing your real chemistry — whether that’s silly, sweet, or a bit sarcastic

No Pressure, No Pretending
Some couples want zero posing. Others like a little direction. I adapt to you.
What I won’t do:
Force you into awkward positions
Ask you to kiss in front of 100 guests if you're not into PDA
Say the words “Now do a sexy one” (why is this a thing??)
The Importance of Comfort in Photography
Feeling comfortable in front of the camera is crucial. When you are at ease, it shows in your photos. I aim to create a relaxed atmosphere. This way, you can focus on each other instead of worrying about how you look.
Capturing Authenticity
Authenticity is key in photography. I believe that the best moments are often unplanned. Those candid shots reveal true emotions. They tell your story in a way that posed photos simply cannot.
TL;DR: You Be You — I’ll Handle the Camera
Couples portraits don't have to feel like a school photo session. They can feel like hanging out. Like a breather on a busy day. Like you two just having a moment while I quietly (and possibly awkwardly) crouch in a bush nearby with my camera.
Ready for Unawkward, Honest Portraits?
Let’s make some magic — without any of the weird posing. To check availability or ask questions, contact rebeccabrennanphotography@gmail.com. If you're not ready to commit just yet, come stalk me on Instagram @rebecca_brennan_photography.





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